April 2015 Blog Posts (5)

SFL042415.pdf

So why is it so important to be likable?   The simple answer is because other people will then respond positively to your requests  and make your life more rewarding.

If you are interested, here are 10 ways to be more likable:

1.  Be an interested listener.   You will discover that others will be interested in you as they see…

SFL041615.pdf

Life really is about time.  Everything we do involves time.   That is why it is not at all unusual for the recipient of a request for some kind of service to receive a reply about our not having time to accommodate the request.   Reasons for not having time to respond to the service request would fill a book. 

Reasons for not doing many things we would like…

What would you do if there was a difficult problem to solve and everyone else had exhausted their ideas leaving the solving to you?  In one such situation one psychologist,  as a last resort, turned to some theories of Thomas Edison whom you know had a fairly good record as a problem solver.…